Gender stuff but nothing upsetting? Just musing on it a little.

[tomakeanoffer]

So, my brain has been on gender stuff lately and like....Wording? Pronouns, disclosure and stuff like that.

In all seriousness, I'm considering telling folks who ask my gender/pronouns that I am of the Void. My gender and pronouns have been consumed and absorbed into the darkness, so I am all genders, without gender, and whatever it is you see when you look into darkness late at night.

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[tomakeanoffer]

Gender and most other things for me are fluid as all get out. I just roll with things most of the time and it is why I generally use they/them more than anything else.

[shadaras]

Yeah, that I really get. It's like, gender is Everything! or maybe gender is Nothing! or just, like, five things associated with a concept that isn't really gender the way cis people/society think of it.

[tomakeanoffer]

There's a super detailed system in my brain of how people get classified that has very little to do with conventional gender. It really only gets taken into account and really noted as something to pinpoint if I am aware that it is a crucial part of how they ID.

Brains are weird but so is gender, so it works.

[shadaras]

ohhhh that sounds really cool, I'd love to hear about that someday if it's something you're willing to share/talk about :)

[tomakeanoffer]

Oh, I have no problem doing it. <3 Let me know when you're in the mood for a long tangent and I'll shove a cobbled together summary at you

[shadaras]

Awesome <3 I'll try and remember to ask about that, some day this week when I'm not doing anything in particular ^_^

[tomakeanoffer]

Woooosh! spins